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More Relationships Die By Ice Than By Fire

More Relationships Die By Ice Than By Fire

One of the most common complaints I hear from couples is that one or both of the partners feel lonely, or they are not important, or that the relationship itself is not important. Things get busy, like it gets hectic and over scheduled and the relationship takes a back seat. There is still love there, but sometimes it feels like strangers living together, the connection and fun is pushed aside by work, childcare, housework, social media, family, or friends. 

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Understanding Sexual Scripts and Their Impact on Relationships

Understanding Sexual Scripts and Their Impact on Relationships

Understanding sexual scripts is crucial for recognising how deeply ingrained patterns influence intimacy and relationship dynamics. By exploring these subconscious rules, we can uncover the expectations they create, challenge harmful beliefs, and cultivate more fulfilling connections with our partners. This article delves into how sexual scripts are formed, their cultural roots, and practical steps to reshape them for healthier relationships.

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Five Things to Do Before Your First Therapy Session

Five Things to Do Before Your First Therapy Session

Preparing for your first therapy session can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Discover five essential things to do before your first therapy session that will help you ease anxiety, clarify your goals, and start your journey with confidence.

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What is Gottman Couples Therapy

What is Gottman Couples Therapy

Relationships are built on feeling heard, loved, seen, and supported—these are so important for a fulfilling connection, which is the focus of our Couple Therapy sessions,

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When is couples therapy not suitable

When is couples therapy not suitable

There are a number of reasons that a therapist may choose not to continue working with a couple, or upon assessment or intake forms, decide that couples therapy is not the right intervention at this time.

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The Power of Empathy and Showing Up for Each Other in Times of Pain

The Power of Empathy and Showing Up for Each Other in Times of Pain

Empathy is about truly listening and being present with someone in their suffering. It’s not about offering solutions or trying to fix their problems but about being a comforting presence. By showing empathy, we can help alleviate some of the emotional burden they carry and make them feel seen and heard. Listening and being there is sometimes the best and only thing you can do.

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